Which Stitch Markers Are Best

When I first took up crochet I didn't have any stitch markers, I didn't even know stitch markers existed. It wasn't long before I knew about them and I learnt the value of using stitch markers, aka stitch savers. That first frustrating experience of when a project accidentally unravels because there's nothing holding onto the stitch to stop it coming undone or your crochet circle grows in ways it isn't supposed to and the worth of this tiny tool became obvious very quickly. But there are so many styles of stitch marker to choose from, locking, circle, coil-less, plastic, safety pins, thread, 3D printed... does it really make a difference which one you use? Is it just how pretty they are? I walk you through a dozen different stitch markers from items you have lying around your home to the fancy artisan styles. I share with you what features to look for and those that don't really hold up to the task.

4 Steps to Painless Wardrobe Purging

Giving Up Means Letting Go 

Have you ever heard the phrase 'Giving Up Means Letting Go'?

I just though it was a metaphorical saying. Turns out it can also be quite literal.

I gave up smoking this year. The inevitable happened, I put on weight.

What this means is that most of my clothes are too small, and I have to declutter my wardrobe.

decluttering clothes

I find it hard enough to purge clothing when I've worn it out, but there's some fairly new stuff too. I simply cannot bring myself to get rid of it all, what if my weight drops again?

I know, I know.....I'm delusional. I just need some time to get used to this new status quo.

Stage 1 - Collect as you go

I keep a bag near my wardrobe and whenever I try something on and it doesn't fit it or it needs a button or a repair it goes into the bag.

When the bag is full I put it away and get another bag, they're not huge, just little calico totes for shopping.

If I were to think I had to get rid of everything that went into those bags I would never put anything in them. But that's not how this system works. Anything that simply cannot (broken zip etc.) or will not (fits awful) be worn in the next few weeks goes into that bag.

Stage 2 - Only sort items you know should get discarded

When the urge hits me, I gather the bags up and pull out the storage boxes of clothes as well.  The bags and storage boxes are the clothes I know I should be getting rid of.

I won't. I can't. Not yet anyhow. So I put a limit on how much I can hold onto. I sort all these clothes I haven't seen for a while with fresh eyes.  I'll start to notice things I'd overlooked before, a pull in the fabric, a bit of fading or wear, that the style isn't to my taste after all. Little things that make it easier to let go.

Doing it this way somehow makes it so much easier to purge then it is ditching it (or donating it) straight from my wardrobe.

Stage 3 - Limit indecisions

I don't allow myself to increase the amount I put back into storage, so I have to remove enough items that everything from the bags and the storage containers will only fit into the storage containers.

These are the clothes I hope I might fit back into, not because I care about my weight but because I care about my budget, or I'm just particularly fond of that garment.

Stage 4 - Upcycling | Donating 

Every time I go through my clothes it gets easier. Of course, I like to keep stuff I can upcycle or use for T-shirt yarn. Those items don't stay around for very long otherwise they get purged the next time I go through everything. The rest goes out to be donated.

5 piles of clothes

The five piles you see in the above image are all for up-cycling or donating.

But wait...there's more!  The piles you see in the below image will also be donated.

decluttered clothes for donating

Yep, that's right this does not include the stuff that went into storage which is mostly work clothes and a couple of dresses that would be suitable for more formal wear. It's a bit of shock to realise there was that much. It's stuff I can't wear, but it's still hard to let go.

Hopefully one day purging clothing will be easy.


  1. Thanks for sharing a great post, it is surprising how quickly clothes mount up that you don't need and getting round to sorting them can seem like a huge job. Thanks for the encouragement to get sorted.

    1. It can seem endless can't it? Doing it as I go made such a difference to me rather then having to go through my whole wardrobe, of course a big weight change after giving up smoking turned it into a huge job anyway. Good luck with getting it done :o)

  2. Great tips! I am always struggling to keep my wardrobe under control. Stopping by from Treasure Box Tuesday.

  3. I love the idea of the bags and making decisions one at a time. Found you from the LinkUp today!

    1. Having to try everything on and make all the decisions is much easier doing it bit by bit rather then trying to do the whole wardrobe at once.

  4. I never heard that phrase "giving up means letting go" but after saying it in my head a few times, it totally makes sense with purging clothes! My husband and I went thought our clothes a few months back and we actually have a large box of SAVED shirts b/c of some meaning... Now I'm wondering why we have it. :/

    Thanks for sharing!!

    1. I can't tell you how many times I've wondered why I've kept something. Crazy isn't it?


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